The Great Debate: Facesitting or Pillow Princess
In case you haven’t been told, I’m a self-proclaimed “Pillow Princess”. Now for the uninitiated, this means that when I have someone going down on me, I like to lay back (on a pile of pillows…probably) and do nothing but receive pleasure. I don’t want to worry about holding myself upright, not falling over…nada which means while I have done it before, facesitting is not my “go to” position. The experience is a lot different than being a pillow princess.
Now don’t get me wrong, facesitting IS fun, but is it the superior way to get oral sex? I’m not convinced.
Let’s look at some pros and cons for this debate.
The Pros of Facesitting
Taking charge and having a submissive at your mercy can be an amazing feeling. My very own pleasure throne to do with as I please. That pretty face of yours would belong to me. What about positions? Am I facing forward so I can look into your eyes as you savor my taste, or do I face your feet so I can play with you while you’re working at my clit?
Feeling your hot breath between my cheeks as your tongue desperately tries to send me over the edge. You grabbing my ass and moaning, eating me like it’s your last meal. Watching my breasts bouncing over you as you worked to MY tune. Or I can bound your hands, and use you, which isn’t a bad idea either.
Slowly gyrating and rolling my hips would be enough to give you something to think about while you watch my body above you…grinding myself against you in a similar way I’d use a toy. After all, if you are stuck beneath me like that, aren’t you already halfway to being one? Talk about controlling the action…I could sit there lightly and let you do your thing, or I can grab you by the hair, pull you into me, sit down hard and even do a little smothering if I’m in the mood.
Okay, I got literal goosebumps while writing that…
The Cons of Facesitting
*Silence*
*Crickets*
*More silence*
Um…You could smother your partner and end up in the ER??? (I’m really stretching, aren’t I)
*More Silence*
But is the cunnilingus really that good if you can stay upright??? (Um yes, yes it can be)
*Sighs* I may have lost my own argument about which is better. Facesitting has too many pros to be dismissed. However, I’m not one to admit defeat easily, so dare I say, more research is needed to truly find out if facesitting is indeed, the better option. I volunteer as tribute 🙂
Which position is your favorite and why?
Until Next Time,
Jessica
Mistress of Phone Sex
Hi Ms Jessica!
I don’t know how I missed your blogs, but wow I’m glad I happened upon this post! In reality I didn’t just “happen upon it” but our Sister Mistress Rachel Tweeted it out and I just had to see what all the excitement was about. Boy did I find out! Isn’t it a fantastic thing when Our Sister Mistresses support and celebrate each other!? I think so!
I hope you are on twitter soon, so we all can have fun with the naughty ones there, too!
Love your blog, your sexy mind and can’t wait to play with you on a TWO Mistress call!
I did peek at your about page, too! We are Sister Virgo’s! Aug 27th here!
Happy Birthday , Lovely Lady! May all of your pets spoil you, you deserve it!
Ms Erica, you are lovely beyond words, in all ways. My blog is very new and I’m still finding my footing. I couldn’t do it without the support of my Sister Mistresses (love that by the way). Don’t look at my Twitter yet!! That’s next on my “Learn it or Lose it” list. I’m a Twitter fail right now, lol.
Oh wait! I just found you on twitter! Yay!
hahaha I was wondering if there would be any debate at all because facesitting is fantastic…but I had to come and comment and let you know the song “sit on my face and tell me that you love me” has been running through my head since I first read your post!!!!
I was laughing at myself by the end of writing… “Jessica, you lost your own argument!! DORK.” It’s okay, I will embrace my dorkus maximus side with pride 😉