The Great Debate: Facesitting or Pillow Princess

In case you haven’t been told, I’m a self-proclaimed “Pillow Princess”. Now for the uninitiated, this means that when I have someone going down on me, I like to lay back (on a pile of pillows…probably) and do nothing but receive pleasure. I don’t want to worry about holding myself upright, not falling over…nada which means while I have done it before, facesitting is not my “go to” position. The experience is a lot different than being a pillow princess.

Now don’t get me wrong, facesitting IS fun, but is it the superior way to get oral sex? I’m not convinced.

Let’s look at some pros and cons for this debate.

The Pros of Facesitting

Taking charge and having a submissive at your mercy can be an amazing feeling. My very own pleasure throne to do with as I please. That pretty face of yours would belong to me. What about positions? Am I facing forward so I can look into your eyes as you savor my taste, or do I face your feet so I can play with you while you’re working at my clit?

Feeling your hot breath between my cheeks as your tongue desperately tries to send me over the edge. You grabbing my ass and moaning, eating me like it’s your last meal. Watching my breasts bouncing over you as you worked to MY tune. Or I can bound your hands, and use you, which isn’t a bad idea either.

Slowly gyrating and rolling my hips would be enough to give you something to think about while you watch my body above you…grinding myself against you in a similar way I’d use a toy. After all, if you are stuck beneath me like that, aren’t you already halfway to being one? Talk about controlling the action…I could sit there lightly and let you do your thing, or I can grab you by the hair, pull you into me, sit down hard and even do a little smothering if I’m in the mood.

Okay, I got literal goosebumps while writing that…

The Cons of Facesitting

*Silence*
*Crickets*
*More silence*
Um…You could smother your partner and end up in the ER??? (I’m really stretching, aren’t I)
*More Silence*
But is the cunnilingus really that good if you can stay upright??? (Um yes, yes it can be)

*Sighs* I may have lost my own argument about which is better. Facesitting has too many pros to be dismissed. However, I’m not one to admit defeat easily, so dare I say, more research is needed to truly find out if facesitting is indeed, the better option. I volunteer as tribute 🙂

Which position is your favorite and why?

Until Next Time,
Jessica
Mistress of Phone Sex