I hate that phrase. Can you hate a phrase?? When I hear “It’s just a phase” it makes me so angry, especially in regard to sexual fetishes.

Anyways, those words are usually spouted off when a person is unaccepting or doesn’t understand something. It can be a boy that plays with dolls. It can be a girl that hates dresses and can’t stand getting girly. (The horror) Take a breath, it’s okay. It just means more pretties for us! Two classic examples but relevant, nonetheless.

Unfortunately, I’ve also heard it way too many times in reference to sexual fetishes. It’s infuriating. Of course, people have “phases” but to automatically assume that a proclivity towards a certain fetish is just a phase, is insulting. It’s terrible but what I hear is “it’s a sickness, but it will get better”.

 

Trust Me, Just Don’t

I’ve been embracing my dominant side for a while. (Shameless plug: Read about my dominant side) I’ve talked to a lot of callers and I’m a ride or die Mistress with my fellow perverts…trust me, just don’t. Don’t go there. We are part of a community you may never understand, which is unfortunate. Take heed, wars have been fought in our world for far far less. I know, I know…I’m getting a little feisty, deal with it.

You know what? Maybe it is just a phase…you don’t know us, how the hell would you know? Half the time WE don’t even know.

Or maybe, just maybe, it’s an integral part of who we are, and nothing can, or better yet should, try to change that.

 

The Silver Fetish Lining

The silver lining is it’s one of the reasons all of you are here. Here on this earth, here on this blog, here on the phones sharing your fantasies with us and embracing the things that bring you joy and make you whole. I think I speak for many (and if I don’t feel free to spank me) we are honored to be here, you submission is a gift, and we are glad it wasn’t “just a phase” for you.

And for all of those people out there with no sense of adventure and completely unaware of all the fetishes that can bring extreme pleasure, you should be so lucky as to experience the feel of stockings on your masculine legs. You don’t deserve the explosive release that comes with a tease and denial experience. And the rush of seeing your wife enjoy herself with other men and being asked to push your boundaries is something you will never experience. We pity you.

Don’t let it be “just a phase.” Let us teach you the pleasures of all that kink and fetishes have to offer.

Until next time,
Jessica
Your Mistress of Phone Sex